The Safe Place

The Safe Place is just that…safe. Safe from people being bothersome. Safe from people talking. Safe from harm.

I have a special place in my classroom where students may go when they feel angry, sad, or upset. It’s a comfortable space in the back of the room that is still visible to me, but not in the line of sight of any other students.

Have you ever had that kid that always came into your room in a bad mood? Or the one who gets upset after recess? Or that other one that gets frustrated with everything his neighbor does or says? Yep, we all experience some sort of issue throughout the course of the year. Let me tell you, my friends, the Safe Place is a great way for students to get away from peers or other issues that are bothering them.

Here’s how it works. As a class, we talk about the Safe Place on the very first day of school. We talk about the rules of the Safe Place. 1. You may go there ONLY when you are angry, sad, or upset. It is not a place to relax and read or play with anything that belongs there. 2. You still have to pay attention and listen. I will not directly call on a student who is in the safe place, but work is still expected to be completed. 3. This is NOT a permanent seat, and the goal is to transition back to your desk within 10 minutes. (Of course, there are always extenuating circumstances)

Some teachers think that I’m crazy for having such a place in my room, but it has worked miracles for some kids!! And I always hear, “Oh, my kids would just always go there or would abuse it.” All I have to say to that is, if you set up the expectations early and stick to it, they won’t. In 6 years I’ve never has a student abuse it.

This, coupled with the Social Contract, is a great way to manage an effective classroom with a positive atmosphere.

Try it. What have you got to lose? 😉



  1. Great idea! Sometimes a little space to recoup is all that is needed. (Many teachers need the same thing at the end of the day.)

    • I’m not going to say I haven’t put myself there a time or two! :) (I usually have a pillow in the floor so it isn’t hard and cold!!) Thanks for stopping by!!

  2. Hey there,
    great idea! Where do you get this innovation from? :)
    Have a great day & may the force be with you,

  3. wow I love this idea I am going to set this up in my classroom!

    • It TOTALLY works if you set up the rules and expectations from the start! Good luck implementing this into your classroom. If you have any other questions that aren’t answered here, feel free to email me or leave a comment. :) Thanks for stopping by!


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